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How Wrestling Impacted My Life – An Argument For Keeping Wrestling In The Olympics!


Two U.S. Air Force members wrestling in a Grec...

Two U.S. Air Force members wrestling in a Greco-Roman match. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Inspired by Jay Mohr’s rant against the IOC’s decision to eliminate Wrestling from the Olympics, I decided to write me own post about how wrestling impacted my life…

Wrestling is unlike any other sport out there…

During High School, how many folks woke up before 5am, put on a plastic suit and worked out hard for an hour before going to school?

How many folks limited their meals to Wednesday, Saturday, and Sunday each week, so that they could make weight twice a week to compete?

I wonder how many folks out there know what it is like to wrestle five matches after losing 21 pounds over the past 72 hours?

Every time you walk out onto the mat, your opponent wants to intimidate you, dominate you, hurt you, outsmart you, and outwrestle you into a victory…

Your victories are extremely painful, and your losses are downright unbearable…

I feel sorry for the folks who have never stood in front of hundreds of people, getting your hand raised by the referee, after leaving everything you had on the mat…

I feel even worse for the folks who have never stood in front of the same hundreds of people, bleeding and injured after being destroyed by a stronger opponent, watching him get his hand raised as the crowd cheers while you stand there in front of everyone….humiliated…

Most people could not handle that…Most people would just quit…But wrestlers are a different breed…

I was an average wrestler.  I won more than I lost.  I was a 4-year Varsity guy in school, won all-area honors three of the four years, and I wrestled in national tournaments during college in one last gasp effort to see if I had what it took to get to the next level.  I still lost over 60 times throughout my career..

60 times, starting at the age of 13, I stood in front of a cheering crowd, angry and humiliated as the referee raised the other guy’s hand..

Every one of those 60 times, there was only one person to blame for that loss – and that was Me…

If there is one thing that Wrestling teaches you more than anything else…It is accountability…

Every mistake hurts…Every delayed reaction hurts…Over-thinking something hurts…Under-thinking something hurts…Losing is unbearable…

Could you imagine how much harder you would work if you knew that every time you lost a point of market share, someone was going to come up and bloody your nose while your competitors and their families stood up and cheered?

I have only found one thing that can motivate you in life more than that feeling during that moment…and that is how good it feels to win…

Winning is what makes the sacrifice worth the pain…

I suffered three concussions, I hyper-extended my right elbow over 20 times, I dislocated my jaw (and finished the match), I had over 10 procedures to fix my cauliflower ear (wrestling injury), and I had two knee surgeries…all before I was 21 years old…

And I promise you this – I gave worse to my opponents than I got in return…

Simply put, I left it all out on the mat…

On the mat is where I learned how to succeed in life when adversity strikes…

On the mat is where I learned that if you don’t get what you want, you have nobody but yourself to blame…

On the mat is where I learned that there is always someone out there who is bigger, stronger, and who is working harder than you…

On the mat is where I learned that you are entitled to nothing, and you have to earn everything you seek in life…

In Wrestling, there is no pro – Kids begin wrestling so that they can make Olympics…We continue wrestling because it gets in our blood…

If the IOC were to take wrestling from the Olympics, it will begin to disappear from College Campuses, which will slowly cause it to disappear from High Schools and Youth Groups across the country.

The population of the entitled, coddled, and lazy people in the United States is growing at an alarming rate.  Please don’t take away the leading educator on accountability, work ethic, and toughness.

Please forward this to every wrestler you know, and post your own story on how Wrestling impacted your life.  Keep Wrestling in the Olympics!

I am the future 1% – Why do you hate me?


This is an essay from someone who is destined to be in the 1% before long.  This group, the 1%, has been vilified in the media, eviscerated by Liberal groups, and demonized through political rhetoric during the Obama years.  Are these people really the devil?  Or is it possible that they are exactly the kind of hardworking, down-to-earth, creative-thinking people who we need to pull our country out of the hole that we have dug ourselves?

 

–          I am the future 1% – This is my story

–          I’m 5 foot 2 – Studies indicate I will make $237K less than the avg. 6 foot tall man in my lifetime

–          I started working at 14 at a fast food restaurant – I rode my bike to work every day

–          I did not make over $5/hour until I had gotten three raises and an assistant manager promotion

–          I worked full-time in High School while competing in sports and making the honor roll

–          I never did drugs, partied, or drank in High School

 

–          I am the future 1% – Should I have enjoyed High School more?  Worked less?  Partied harder?

–          I got a promotion to manager at the age of 18, after working at the same place for 4+ years

–          I didn’t get into my preferred college – I went to another school, quit for 1 yr before returning

–          I was arrested for drinking underage during college – I decided not to let it define who I was

 

–          I am the future 1% – Should I have given up when adversity struck for the first time?

–          I worked full-time and slowly finished college in 6 years after much prodding from my parents

–          I took a 100% commission job at a Fortune 500 company, fought hard for every meal for a year

–          I was arrested again – I decided to make myself a better person instead of spiraling downward

 

 

–          I am the future 1% – Should I have given up when everything seemed to be going against me?

–          I got promoted after a year of outstanding work – putting in more hours than anyone else

–          I moved to another Fortune 500 company, this time as a Bank Manager

–          I bought a house at the height of the housing boom – I am currently still $50K underwater on it

–          I took out over 80K in loans so I could quit my job and go back to school for my MBA

 

–          I am the future 1% – Should I have saved my money, settled down, and stopped progressing?

–          I received a Manager offer from another Fortune 500 company after business school

–          I got married to the love of my life and bought another house in a small town

–          I turned around two struggling business units, and quickly got promoted to Senior Manager

–          I am the future 1% – Should I have just enjoyed the ride and collected a paycheck?

–          I welcomed my first child into our family, and named him after my Grandfather

–          My wife runs a small business while raising our son full-time – She is absolutely amazing

–          Our current Net Worth is still below zero, though we are starting to catch up

–          I am currently in the top 13th income percentile at age 32…

 

–          I am the future 1% – Should I feel bad about what I have accomplished?

–          Would you rather I fell apart after the arrests and became a burden on society?

–          Would you rather I didn’t graduate college?

 

–          I am the future 1% – Should I feel bad about working hard to get ahead?

–          Would you rather I didn’t make an $80K bet on myself and my abilities?

–          Would you rather I coasted along in mediocrity without ever offering my employers value?

 

–          I am the future 1% – Why do you hate me?

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